I already narrowed it down a lot (I took a lot more than 4 pictures). And I will share I how got such nice relaxed and natural pictures of him. I told him we would be taking pictures (but not for a long time) told him roughly where I wanted him to be then I asked him, "can you say 4-6-9-3?"(or any other sequence of numbers) and then when he did it I would say, "wow, great job!" and he would smile and look away. I can't tell you how happy I am that I figured that out. Now I just need to figure something out for Gracie. Her pictures are next.